I often describe myself as truly Kenyan.
I call many places home, whether by heritage, birth, marriage, or migration. Having lived in Nairobi, Kiambu, Kajiado, and Mombasa, I have experienced firsthand the diversity of our country. Like many Kenyans, my life has been shaped by strong family and community ties. Here, family extends far beyond the nuclear household. We support one another through education, weddings, funerals, medical emergencies, financial challenges, and many other aspects of life.
This sense of shared responsibility also influences how we borrow and repay money and can also create confusion when loans fall into arrears.
This was the backdrop to our executive forum, “Rethinking Collections in Kenya,” hosted by Relational at the Serena Hotel in Nairobi. The event brought together more than 33 professionals from banks, SACCOs, telcos, and digital lending institutions to discuss the future of collections in Kenya.
I opened the session by sharing a personal experience involving a relative who was pressured by a financial institution to repay a debt taken by his spouse. Distressed and unsure of his rights, he reached out to me for guidance. I asked him two simple questions:
“Did you take the loan?” and “Did you guarantee the loan?”
The answer to both was no.
Armed with that clarity, he challenged the demands being made of him, and the lender ultimately had no choice but to release him.
While this may seem like an isolated incident, it highlights a broader challenge facing the lending industry today. From not knowing whom they are lending to, to how they approach recovery, organizations can sometimes adopt practices that damage customer relationships, increase regulatory risk, and erode trust.
The Lenders Executive Forum reinforced an important reality that collections is not simply an operational function but a strategic capability with a direct impact on customer experience, reputation, compliance, and business performance.
Four key themes emerged from the discussions: borrower behavior is evolving, collections must protect customer relationships, technology is a strategic enabler, and governance matters.

